ÿþ<HTML> <HEAD> <TITLE>Over 30 And Still A Virgin</TITLE> </script> <META http-equiv="content-type" content="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1"> <META NAME="keywords" CONTENT="Adult Virgins, over 30 and still virgin, still virgin at 30, too old to be a virgin, find someone to have first sex with, tips for adult virgins, help for adult virgins, how to get it on"> <META NAME="robots" CONTENT="follow"> <link rel=stylesheet type="text/css" href="http://date-cultured-men.com/dcm.css"> </HEAD> <BODY BGCOLOR=#FFFFFF TEXT=#000000 LINK=#000000 VLINK=#000000 ALINK=#000000 LEFTMARGIN=0 TOPMARGIN=0 BGPROPERTIES="FIXED"> <TABLE ALIGN="CENTER" CELLPADDING=12 CELLSPACING=0 WIDTH="835" BORDER=0> <TR> <TD ALIGN="CENTER" BACKGROUND="http://www.girlsmeetgentlemen.com/GMG-header.jpg" WIDTH="830" HEIGHT="187"> </TD> </TR> <tr> <td align="center" valign="middle" bgcolor="white" width="100%" height="40"> <HR ALIGN="CENTER" SIZE="2" WIDTH="100%" COLOR="grey"> </td> </tr> <TR> <TD ALIGN="LEFT"> <H1>Over 30 And Still A Virgin</H1> <BR> Most people over 30 find it very hard to imagine a life without partners, without physical contact, without cuddles, kisses and sex. The thought of being a virgin as an adult might seem absurd or funny in a way but it is, in fact, a bitter reality to many grown-ups over 30. People who never had a boy or girlfriend or sex in their entire life. Modern media is mainly focused on tips for teenagers and young people of  how to get it on but outside the public eye there are countless adults that might need those tips even more urgently. <BR><BR> There are no exact figures because adult virgins are ashamed and do not often speak about their worries. However, according to estimates about a third of all 18 year old students are still a virgin and further estimates show that at least 10 percent of them are still virgins when they leave university. But this issue does not only occur in certain classes or groups of society. It could be anyone from pilots, teachers, lawyers, doctors, to unemployed people. And they might even remain virgins until they are 40 years old or over. <BR><BR> The reasons vary from person to person. Maybe something happened in their childhood or they experienced other trauma-like occurrences in their life. One example is children who are not very good at sports in school. When forming teams for sport games, no one wants to select them and this might be the start of excluding or bullying them in other lessons or on the schoolyard, too. Outsiders then tend to isolate themselves from other children and spend more time at home alone with books and hobbies. The escape to school books might result in knowledge and good grades but certainly also enhances the reputation of being a geek and an outsider. It is a vicious circle in which they won t get any invitations for parties and events anymore and isolate themselves more and more. And when they are excluded from socializing, they don t get the same opportunities as other kids to get together and possibly experience first sexual encounters. <BR><BR> Some people also simply miss the right moment to get closer with a girl or a boy. They are not interested in them until they notice that they are missing something. And while his or her friends already gained a lot of experience, the virgin increasingly lacks the knowledge and courage to address the problem. Years might pass and it might even become normal or easy to accept by engaging with hobbies, career and other things to avoid confronting the issue. But it still remains a constant human desire. <BR><BR> There are a lot of books, groups and online dating sites that offer help and the possibility to find likeminded people. Virgins over 30 should stop accepting or worrying, they must go out there and feel confident that they are not alone with their  problem and their number one target should be to find someone who they can finally share one of life s greatest pleasures with. <BR><BR><BR> <A HREF="http://www.girlsmeetgentlemen.com"><H1>> back to girlsmeetgentlemen.com</H1></A> <BR><BR> <CENTER><FONT SIZE=-1 >© since 2006</FONT></CENTER> <CENTER><FONT SIZE=-1 >all rights reserved</FONT></CENTER> </TD> </TR> </TABLE> <BR> </BODY> </HTML>