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<H1>Pick-up lines, that rather should not be tried out</H1>
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Flirting means to contact a seemingly likeable person in a casual manner within a relaxed atmosphere without imposing yourself on him or her. This may sound easy at first, but in real life it may be underestimated. The first impression (even if it is a clumsy chat-up line) is basically crucial. 
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Especially when you as a man are able to start out with a breezy and unique pick-up line, which also includes a pinch of humor, it can be the starting point for the next steps in a flirt. 
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Mistakes at this stage and you can forget about the entire undertaking. The first attempt in flirting should be as gentle and 
tactful as possible, so it becomes evident that your advances are meant seriously but there still is a certain respect. In old-fashioned flirting, when you actually meet in a real life situation, facial expression and gesture are important key roles. Eye contact is an undeniable possibility to literally captivate your flirt partner. Still this is not the only way to build up positive tension, which means one step forward. In almost the same manner a person can appear in a charming way by simply stepping up in a helpful way or being courteous and polite. This is a secret weapon for those not daring enough to start a conversation out of the blue. 
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By no means you should allow yourself verbal extravaganzas as actions such as these mostly have the opposite effect than desired when flirting. “Step by step” is the motto that definitely has to be considered here, when it comes to pick-up lines oder meaningful chatting enabling you to conquer a heart.
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In case you do not have the courage to address someone, for whatever reasons, and even if it is a short but brilliant pick-up line, have good trustworthy friends  accompany you. To gain the necessary confidence manners sometimes it is useful to savor the house's finest spirits.  
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Still caution is advised here, please only in common quantities, everything more would reduce the ability to flirt. Alcohol helps to lower the inhibition threshold, but at the same time you run the risk of kicking over the traces. Especially for men this rule applies: much does not help much, when we consider the situation from a “flirt” point of view. Many women take it as completely uncivilized when a subject approaches them in a weird way. 
Remain a gentleman and do not forget that you have your eyes firmly fixed on a goal, which can only be reached when you show charm, esprit and quick-wittedness. Chat-up lines have to be used in a way that don't result in interactions that do not cross certain borders. Forget about sexist lines, arrogant ironic dictums or anything like this. Attempts for contact like these will end in a first class disaster. Flirting also means confident demeanor, therefore avoid pick-up lines like the one listed below as bad examples:
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	⁃	Please exchange a few sentences with me, so my friends can see I'm chatting with a great woman.<BR>
	⁃	May I ask two questions ?<BR><BR> First: What is your favorite flower ? And second to which address shall I have them sent.<BR>
	⁃	Excuse me, I don't want to make a pass at you, but I wouldn't mind you making a pass at me. <BR>
	⁃	I'm new in the city, would you show the way to your apartment ?<BR>
	⁃	Your eyes are as beautiful as the ocean in a clear summer night. If I was the Titanic I'd gladly sink in them. <BR>
	⁃	Your eyes tell me everything but your name. <BR>
	⁃	I'd like to have to have breakfast with you, can I invite you for dinner ? <BR>
	⁃	Is your father a terrorist ? You look killer !<BR>

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