ÿþ<HTML> <HEAD> <TITLE>Help! My Partner Wants Kids</TITLE> </script> <META http-equiv="content-type" content="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1"> <META NAME="keywords" CONTENT="My partner wants kids, she wants kids, she wants children, he wants kids, he wants children, she wants to have a baby, my girlfriend wants a baby, my wife wants a baby, My boyfriend wants a baby, my husband wants a baby, I don t want babies yet "> <META NAME="robots" CONTENT="follow"> <link rel=stylesheet type="text/css" href="http://date-cultured-men.com/dcm.css"> </HEAD> <BODY BGCOLOR=#FFFFFF TEXT=#000000 LINK=#000000 VLINK=#000000 ALINK=#000000 LEFTMARGIN=0 TOPMARGIN=0 BGPROPERTIES="FIXED"> <TABLE ALIGN="CENTER" CELLPADDING=12 CELLSPACING=0 WIDTH="835" BORDER=0> <TR> <TD ALIGN="CENTER" BACKGROUND="http://www.girlsmeetgentlemen.com/GMG-header.jpg" WIDTH="830" HEIGHT="187"> </TD> </TR> <tr> <td align="center" valign="middle" bgcolor="white" width="100%" height="40"> <HR ALIGN="CENTER" SIZE="2" WIDTH="100%" COLOR="grey"> </td> </tr> <TR> <TD ALIGN="LEFT"> <H1>Help! My Partner Wants Kids</H1> <BR> My partner wants kids, she wants kids, she wants children, he wants kids, he wants children, she wants to have a baby, my girlfriend wants a baby, my wife wants a baby, My boyfriend wants a baby, my husband wants a baby, I don t want babies yet <BR><BR> Both are in their thirties, the relationship is serious and healthy, both have a great career, the house is paid off and furnished and the vegetables grow happily in the beautiful big garden. What a perfect life! Wait a minute, isn t there something missing? Yeah, where are the kids? <BR><BR> It is a natural human desire to have children. But how can we be sure that the moment is right? Nowadays a lot of women in their mid-thirties are on the peak of their career, so it is not unusual anymore that men are ready for babies while she still wants to climb up the ladder in her job without a maternity break. But the usual case is that women around 30 get the biological signals from their body that it s time to have children and men cannot really become friends with the thought yet, to have a crying baby waking them up 3 times a night and changing their life dramatically for good. <BR><BR> There s never a right moment to have kids and if all the social and financial circumstances are in order there is never a wrong one either. Couples over 35 should therefore be careful not to miss the chance to have kids. People who start a relationship in their thirties and know that they definitely want children at some point in their lives, should make sure to find a partner that shares their desire. If it comes to a point where one partner desperately wants some kids and the other one doesn t, both should talk to each other honestly and openly to agree on a compromise. This might mean e.g. waiting one year or two years longer. If worst comes to worst and one partner is clearly against children, the other one must decide whether to stay with him or her and forget the dream of being a mother or a father, or leave to grab the chance to find a new partner that shares their wish for babies. But this is easier said than done. Once the dream partner is found it is very hard to decide whether to stay with him or her and don t ever have children or leave. Whatever the decision, the one who wants children should make sure that it is the right one because if the deepest wish is to be a mother or a father one day then that will never go away and always be a controversial issue in the relationship. A dispute like that can even destroy healthy relationships and marriages. <BR><BR> It is important that couples talk openly about this subject every now and then to make sure that they are on the same page. But the ones who decide not to have any children between 20 and 45 might regret it badly one day. <BR><BR><BR> <A HREF="http://www.girlsmeetgentlemen.com"><H1>> back to girlsmeetgentlemen.com</H1></A> <BR><BR> <CENTER><FONT SIZE=-1 >© since 2006</FONT></CENTER> <CENTER><FONT SIZE=-1 >all rights reserved</FONT></CENTER> </TD> </TR> </TABLE> <BR> </BODY> </HTML>