ÿþ<HTML> <HEAD> <TITLE>Flirt Tips for young ladies and mature gentlemen</TITLE> </script> <META http-equiv="content-type" content="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1"> <META NAME="keywords" CONTENT="success, online dating"> <META NAME="robots" CONTENT="follow"> <link rel=stylesheet type="text/css" href="http://date-cultured-men.com/dcm.css"> </HEAD> <BODY BGCOLOR=#FFFFFF TEXT=#000000 LINK=#000000 VLINK=#000000 ALINK=#000000 LEFTMARGIN=0 TOPMARGIN=0 BGPROPERTIES="FIXED"> <TABLE ALIGN="CENTER" CELLPADDING=12 CELLSPACING=0 WIDTH="835" BORDER=0> <TR> <TD ALIGN="CENTER" BACKGROUND="http://www.girlsmeetgentlemen.com/GMG-header.jpg" WIDTH="830" HEIGHT="187"> </TD> </TR> <tr> <td align="center" valign="middle" bgcolor="white" width="100%" height="40"> <HR ALIGN="CENTER" SIZE="2" WIDTH="100%" COLOR="grey"> </td> </tr> <TR> <TD ALIGN="LEFT"> <H1>Flirt Tips for young ladies and mature gentlemen</H1> <BR> Basically stay true to yourself, lean back and relax and show interest and respect for your counterpart. Treat people as you want to be treated by them and never cross any borders. <BR><BR> 1. Humor and unsophistication are the two main factors during the  first flirt . <BR><BR> 2. Don't be shy, but deal openly with the reactions of your partner, with out any ulterior motives. Think positively and stay confident <BR><BR> 3. Entangle a young woman, you want to get to know better, in seemingly banal small-talk situations and learn about common ground, interests and fondnesses as well as first character traits. <BR><BR> 4. Be a complete gentleman, abstain from using lapidary dictums or other innuendo, which are totally wrong here, as they will overturn the atmosphere during the first date <BR><BR> 5. Often the introduction to a conversation is not easy to find, there is no secret recipe. Only a healthy dose of confidence helps, maybe a funny story, that recently happened to you or simply a interesting occurrence from your life's history. Be spontaneous and don't plan anything ! A good flirt is always witty, spontaneous and spiced with a certain effortlessness, don't forget humor. Highly complicated things work out, when they look easy ! <BR><BR> 6. It is also very important how you come across at the first encounter: Don't pretend to be something your not, just to maybe hit on the lady of your choice the way you wish on the inside. Women feel, when you're not being authentic and maybe she wants to enter a relation with you and it does not help anything, when you play a game and pretend. This would only block your flirt partner. <BR><BR> 7. You have to seize the moment, take the initiative, but be careful. Play with the risk of getting the mitten, with the every-day situation in the cafe around the corner, use the opportunities to your advantage. <BR><BR> 8. Look at the initial position realistically. For an example you should clearly define your goals and count progress such as gaining experience as a success. Don't start to doubt yourself, as haste makes waste. <BR><BR> 9. It is normal to be nervous. Don't you think that your adored one feels about the same ? <BR><BR> 10. Learn to deal with refusal, mishaps and embarrassment in the early stages. This will make it lot easier especially regarding bigger disappointments, which you may have to come to terms with, in case it occurs unexpectedly. <BR><BR> 11. Don't evaluate women's reactions to deeply, the same goes with e-mails oder texts, you receive to abridge the waiting time to the first date. Always be aware of the fact that all of this depends on emotions and the daily form. Meaning: all humans underly common deviations as all  natural products do. <BR><BR> 12. If you succeed in creating a romantic moment during the flirt, you may have set up a stable starting position to be considered the future partner. <BR><BR> 13. Do not become set on agreements you made during the first flirt. Here you could be up for a harsh disappointment which could bear severe consequences. That's why you already have developed a plan. <BR><BR> 14. This plan arranges for what you do as an alternative so you don't have to relinquish bygone visions: Distract yourself and think of new ways and means. Sometimes it is an advantage to have several irons in the fire. <BR><BR> 15. Take care of your appearance, as women have a trained eye for details like socks, clean shoes, adequate clothing or modern hairstyle. The devil is in the details ! <BR><BR> 16. Carve out your personality step by step, show some understanding. It will be necessary, when certain issues are discussed. Try to be authentic without overburdening the loving beauty with senseless compliments. The share speech should be divided equally, so a true dialogue can be established. <BR><BR> 17. Can you create the feeling of security with your dream partner ? Very good, another milestone to conquer  her . Important: It does have to be  by storm . <BR><BR> 18. Play with words. Don't try acrobatics while doing so, especially if you're not an expert. Eloquence can actually add to a conversation. <BR><BR> 19. Timing should fit the date. Should you like to make intricate plans, please abstain from sticking with them to strictly. Spontaneity can save many situations which could not have been corrected otherwise. Improvisation the champion of all classes <BR><BR> 20. Facial expression and gesture should not be underestimated. That's the fine art of flirting. <BR><BR> 21. Be patient, don't expect things your partner clearly does not want and remember, that silence can also be a statement of intent. 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