ÿþ<HTML> <HEAD> <TITLE>Flirt Tips - How To Flirt Successfully </TITLE> </script> <META http-equiv="content-type" content="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1"> <META NAME="keywords" CONTENT="Flirting tips, Flirt advice, Dating partner, First date tips, Get it on, How to flirt"> <META NAME="robots" CONTENT="follow"> <link rel=stylesheet type="text/css" href="http://date-cultured-men.com/dcm.css"> </HEAD> <BODY BGCOLOR=#FFFFFF TEXT=#000000 LINK=#000000 VLINK=#000000 ALINK=#000000 LEFTMARGIN=0 TOPMARGIN=0 BGPROPERTIES="FIXED"> <TABLE ALIGN="CENTER" CELLPADDING=12 CELLSPACING=0 WIDTH="835" BORDER=0> <TR> <TD ALIGN="CENTER" BACKGROUND="http://www.girlsmeetgentlemen.com/GMG-header.jpg" WIDTH="830" HEIGHT="187"> </TD> </TR> <tr> <td align="center" valign="middle" bgcolor="white" width="100%" height="40"> <HR ALIGN="CENTER" SIZE="2" WIDTH="100%" COLOR="grey"> </td> </tr> <TR> <TD ALIGN="LEFT"> <H1>Flirt Tips - How To Flirt Successfully</H1> <BR> Flirting nowadays is not the same as it was 50 or even 100 years ago. Romance is nice, but in the 21st century men cannot impress ladies by getting on their knees below the balcony with a rose in their mouth and a guitar in their hands. Nor do cheesy pick-up lines bring the desired success. Modern single girls and men are bored by bog-standard dates and flirting, plus people have less and less time and are not easy to impress. The only thing that remains old-fashioned about flirting is the fact that women still like to be the one to be spoken to. Of course, when the situation is right, girls may also impress with a cheeky first step, but in general, men are the ones to jump in at the deep end. <BR><BR> As already mentioned, boring and cheesy pick-up lines should always be avoided  they don t impress anyone. Creativity is what s required. As soon as the ice is broken and a conversation or a first date is actually underway, women and men should follow these simple but promising tips to successfully draw the attention of  the one to them: <BR><BR> Be yourself. Don t try to be someone you are not, don t show off and don t overdo it. Unless you are a damn good actor, this will definitely blow your chances. Wear comfy clothes. Try to choose clothes you feel very comfortable in, no point in wearing the best looking dress if you can t breathe or have to keep fiddling around on your shirt all the time. Of course you should still try to look as amazing as possible, but make sure your clothes don t distract you from flirting. Don t drink too much. Avoid getting too drunk on a date. It might end up in an unpleasant situation for both sides. Besides, there s nothing less sexy than a babbling, swaying dating partner with brewery breath. Eye contact. Look the other person in the eye. Although shy and cautious behavior might be attractive at first, it has its limits. Avoid being too shy, because this might come across as if you are not interested or eager to get out of the situation. Be as self-confident as possible without overdoing it. Listen. Talking is good. But you should give your dating partner enough time and space to say something about his or her life. Be interested and ask questions about their life and what they like doing. This is a great opportunity to plan something nice for the next date. Be creative. Plan something out of the ordinary for your first date. Arrange a picnic or take your date on a canoe tour. Do something that takes you both far out of the usual patterns of everyday life. This will be a date to remember! <BR><BR> And what if your dating partner turns out to be a complete waste of time and effort? Well, be honest and politely apologize to him or her that this is not going to work out. And don t give up hope. There s always a next time! <BR><BR><BR> <A HREF="http://www.girlsmeetgentlemen.com"><H1>> back to girlsmeetgentlemen.com</H1></A> <BR><BR> <CENTER><FONT SIZE=-1 >© since 2006</FONT></CENTER> <CENTER><FONT SIZE=-1 >all rights reserved</FONT></CENTER> </TD> </TR> </TABLE> <BR> </BODY> </HTML>